Three people have asked for advice about weight loss, in response to this post. It’ll be more efficient if I write up a blog post. The first thing you must realize is that there is no magic way to lose weight. Your weight is a function of three things: (1) your metabolism; (2) your caloric intake; and (3) your caloric expenditure. I don’t take drugs. I do everything the natural way. My aim in writing this post is not to persuade you to lose weight; it is to help you lose weight, given a desire on your part to do so. If you don’t want to lose weight, stop reading and do something else.
The first thing to do is figure out how many calories per day you need to sustain your present weight. Go here and type in the information, including your activity level. Write down the number of calories you need, per day, to sustain your present weight. Put it in a prominent place in your kitchen. My advice is to subtract 200 from the number and limit yourself to that many calories per day. The weight will come off. Be patient. Do not cheat on your activity level. If your activity level is moderate, don’t select “very.” The idea is to take in 200 fewer calories than you need each day. You should recalculate your caloric needs regularly, as your activity level and weight change. Always subtract 200 from what you get, and use that as your daily limit.
You’re probably thinking, “That’s it?” What did you expect, magic? You weren’t born as big as you are. You put the weight on gradually. It will have to come off gradually. Here are my answers to other questions you may have:
1. How do I know how many calories I consume? You count them. Meticulously. I put a stick-on pad on my kitchen counter every morning. Before anything goes in my mouth, I write down how many calories it is. (I also keep track of protein on a separate stick-on pad.) Every food item you buy in a grocery store has the calories on it. I eat a lot of saltine crackers, for example. I limit myself to 20 crackers at a time, which I have calculated to be 240 calories and four grams of protein. Whenever I have soup, I count out 20 crackers and write down “240” and “4.” If you’re not patient enough to do this, then you don’t really want to lose weight, in which case, stop reading.
2. Will I get hungry? Yes. There is nothing wrong with hunger. Eventually, you will interpret hunger as a good thing. It means your body is burning stored fat instead of food. But if you plan properly, you won’t feel hungry often. If you know that you have only so many calories each day, you will spread them out. You will ensure that you don’t consume all of your calories by, say, mid-afternoon, for then you’ll be hungry all evening. This forces you to eat smaller meals, which is good.
3. Does it matter what I eat? No. Eat whatever you want, as long as you count the calories. Obviously, if you get all your calories from beer or soft drinks, you won’t be getting other things you need, such as protein. The discipline imposed by your caloric limit will force you to be more thoughtful about your diet as a whole. You will soon learn that certain foods are worthless, even if they taste good. I was shocked to discover that two foods I like, mayonnaise and peanut butter, are high in calories. I used to slather them on my sandwiches. Now I eat them in small quantities. Moderation is the key; but then, we’ve known that since at least the time of Aristotle.
4. Must I retain the caloric limit forever? No. Once you see how fast the weight is coming off, you can increase the caloric limit if you want to slow the weight loss. Eventually, when you reach your desired weight, you can play around with the limit until you find an equilibrium.
5. Does it matter when I consume the calories? No, with one exception. You should not eat during the two-hour period before you go to sleep. You should be hungry when you go to sleep. You will not feel hungry while you sleep, believe me.
6. May I backslide? Only if you want to defeat the purpose of the diet. Suppose you’ve been consuming 200 fewer calories than you need for five days. If you gorge yourself on the sixth day, consuming 1,000 extra calories, then you’ve made exactly zero progress in that six-day period. Note that if you eat 100 fewer calories today, then you get to eat 100 more calories the next day. It also goes the other way. If you eat 100 more calories today, then you must eat 100 fewer the next day. Calories are cumulative.
It takes discipline to follow this weight-loss plan. I have discipline in spades. I started out with a 2,000-calories-per-day limit and, after several months, increased to 2,100. Later, when I reached my desired weight, I increased it to 2,200 calories. That’s where I’ve been for over a year. I’m in equilibrium. I weigh 153 pounds. Many people have no discipline at all. If you stay disciplined long enough to see results, you may find that you’re more disciplined in other aspects of your life. Virtues, as Aristotle pointed out long ago, must be exercised.
Addendum: If you need to know how many calories particular foods contain, see here. You’ll need a scale, a calculator, and measuring cups. If there are foods you eat regularly, such as baked potatoes, figure out how many calories there are per ounce of potato, write it down, and post it in a conspicuous place, such as the front of your refrigerator. Then you can quickly calculate the calories when you bake a potato. Really, everything I have said in this post is common sense.