“The Teenage Oral-Sex Craze”
I printed this essay a couple of years ago, when it was published. The other day, while searching my stacks for essays on ethical egoism, I saw it, extracted it, and read it. The thing that bothers the author the most, judging from the number of times she mentions it, is that the teenage girls performing fellatio aren’t receiving cunnilingus in return. Here are quotations:
1. “the oral sex is ‘almost always unilateral (girls on boys)'”
2. “casually and without any expectation of reciprocation”
3. “we see a group of young girls who have in effect turned away from their own desire altogether”
4. “unreciprocated oral sex”
5. “a girl may derive a variety of consequences, intended and otherwise, from servicing boys in this manner, but her own sexual gratification is not one of them”
Would the author’s objections dissipate if the oral sex were reciprocal?